Rppfl, you read my mind. I came here to post something about how I feel like I have to come to my H's defense because I seem to only be noticing the negatives. And yes, I was a score-keeper, big time... mostly because I feel like I was always able to apologize and own up to mistakes, and the best he was able to muster was a grudging, "fine, you're right. Let's drop it."
(There I go again! Well, I never said I didn't still have work to do).
So... a positive: he offered to go food shopping for me yesterday(and even wrote it down), and then unpacked the stuff he bought.
