Hey, Nitty, got your earlier post that was eaten. Thanks. I am still working hard to cope. Have got my tongue under control for now.

Cognitive dissonance. That's what this feels like. She has the same voice, speech patterns, everything. Still smiles at the same things, still laughs with or gets on to the kids in the same way.

But my wife is not there. She's been overridden by this divorce creature.

I am a mess. But I'm fighting back. I shall DB harder. I shall come through this with dignity. Somehow, some way.


Me: 43 XW: 43
T15 M14
D21, SS15, S11, D8
BD: 8/6
EA / possible PA discovered 9/29
D final 10/20