Hi Holding,

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If your H really wants a boat, and you really want a boat, and OW would sell/give H the boat for a really good deal, how about buy that boat, sell that boat, then buy another boat?



Hmmmm..I thought about this for awhile and then some more. OW did buy the boat for H to begin with and I have the feeling OW didn't do a lot of fishing either. I did mention your idea to H this morning and he kind of rolled his yes and said something about woman not being truthful, i.e., me telling him shortly into our R 11 years ago "that I didn't want to get married, that I wasn't looking for that" BUT of course things changed, my mind changed yet H can't let this go. OW saying she was buying the boat "for something different" so I think H is FINALLY seeing that is why she bought it..duhhh!!

H stopped at his "local saloon" Wednesday after work which he told me he was doing. When he came home he was in a pretty good mood, considering when he drinks he can go either way. H was VERY loving towards S. Me? Well he get's very "loving" towards me too, if you catch my drift. Eventually I got both of my "boys" into bed, and they both fell right asleep. Of course the bigger "boy" was snoring up a storm.

Yesterday, I didn't hear from H all day. Left him a message in the morning to call me, wanted to talk to him about the weekend. He didn't call me back.

I picked up S from daycare and we just hung out at home. I did some laundry, some cleaning, and watched some TV. Still no H.

In my mind all kind of ASSuming was going on. H isn't coming home, he's with OW. If he does come home when will he show up. I had decided to have no expectations, if he came home fine, if he didn't fine I wasn't going to stay up all night worrying about him.

My rational mind was saying why would he go to OW's? H moved back to us and is trying to put OW out of his life, H realizes her games and her "sad stories" as he calls them are just a "ploy to get him there."

So I prayed. I cannot make my H do anything or see anything so I have turned to praying. It's all I can do.

About 9ish H shows up. Said something about drinking Korbel and Coke for the last six hours and that he went by himself, but ran into some friends. I have no idea where he was. Usually he drinks beer, Korbel and Coke is for the times when beer just ain't going to do it! When everything is just TOO much for H.

Cathy