He Ran Again! What Now?

[holdingon]

Cathy,
If your H really wants a boat, and you really want a boat, and OW would sell/give H the boat for a really good deal, how about buy that boat, sell that boat, then buy another boat? Kind of would profit on the whole OW crap, huh? Now, if she just wants to sell it to H for what it is worth, well, then, might as well buy your own unscathed boat.

Glad to see things going well, and so happy you have found your JOY.

Someone once mentioned to me that maybe it might be easier to start counseling, then invite H to come along... then it doesn't seem like something is wrong with H, but rather you... Don't know if that would work or not.