Ha! I've lost quite a few posts with the board maintenance. Probably a good thing as I had ventured down a negative path (if only real life events could be wiped away so smoothly so that I can start over on a more positive slate!)
Anyway, thanks to LisaB, NewLeaf and Dpthght for their replies (now lost). I've got some updates but will wait til the fixins been done on the boards.
H 37 Me 36 Together 15 years Married 5 years No kids BD Apr 2014 H moved out 2 Jun 2014
