Had a great day today. Got to play in church, again. Went to see my grandma and did a small side job this evening (that my wife would normally have said no to). So, a good GAL day!

Meanwhile in the reality of the Big D land, I'm gathering all the financial docs the court will need to divide my income and our assets. What a drag that is.

So, like many others, I feel ups and downs. Detached and then grieved. My mother says she thinks I will take off like a rocket when this thing is done and will not be looking back, at least to my spouse. That's encouraging yet at the same time concerning because I do want her back, but she must be able to admit her part in this, and not just come back for money. How awful would that be for her to say "I get a second chance" if she can't or won't admit her issues ALSO played a part.

FD


Me:40
W:39
M:Dec 95
Split: Jul 14
W Filed: 9/16/14
Several Children
(including adopted)