Thanks for the feedback, Riley. I don't know if I'm in a position to set a boundary of her talking to other guys. She is basically not my W right now, so I have no say in it. If she tries to "friend zone" me and chat about her comings and goings with guys, I will definitely lay down a boundary between the two of us regarding that.
I might just have to try the wrist-snap technique!
Me 38, WAW 30 D11 (former marriage) S2 T 8 years M 3 years BD 8/20/23 S 8/20/23