Been with my husband for 33 years, 29 married. He moved out in June saying he needed to see if this caused him to miss me - he gave the ILYBINILWY speech. We have 2 daughters, one out on her own and one is a senior in high school. He is dating but says nothing serious. I am devastated and can barely function. Crying daily, shaking with fear and panicking about the future. We basically have no contact except maybe for a little while once per week when he comes over to see daughter. When he goes to leave, I fall apart and cry when we hug goodbye. I know this is not helpful and have read all of the info about not being needy, giving space, etc. but I honestly feel i can't cope at times. I already take antidepressants. Logically, I understand about GAL and all of that but I am finding it impossible to do. I need support from people on this site. I have also just started attending a DivorceCare group at a church. Please, please help me. I feel like I am on the verge of a nervous breakdown.
Me: 54 H: 58 Married: 29 years Together 33 years H admitted to A: 5/29/14 H moved out :6/15/14 OW lives 4 hours away and "occasionally" stays weekends with H D23 D18
