not sure if the forum is up and running properly yet but here are a few things i posted but dissapeared.

one was about Fate met a guy in the pawn shop the other day who was in similar situation to myself , his wife had left him 3 weeks ago after 22 years he said it was out of the blue no warning no signs just bam she left. so he was selling his wedding ring as the final part of his chapter.

but its what he said about there being a higher being and all things are supposed to happen for good that stuck in my head.

another was about 180s one of which is trying to stop bitting my finger nails which is so hard with all that is going on .

hope this post doesnt vanish again


Me 40
W 37
Together 22 years
S18
D12
WaW 12/08/14 after affair exposed , suspected for several months
W returned home for 2 weeks to see if can handle family life
After the 2 weeks she has left .