Unexpected walk-away-husband

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I think you should always have some type of boundary for yourself and your children. I can't speak to your sitch or what your boundaries should be. I will give you two pieces of advice, though.

1. Believe none of what you hear and half of what you see. It's good that you are taking a hard look at yourself when you get any feedback from WAH, but if he's saying you're manipulative and you feel like you aren't at all, then that seems like a classic "do not believe that" moment from a WAS. Don't believe it. My WAW's thing I refused to believe is that she said she never loved me, ever (10 years). I know that is a complete lie, even if she believes it right now.

2. Save a copy of your most recent post to your phone or computer. It will possibly be deleted at any time due to the work on this board.