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LOL, that was for you Cat. And you know I'm just giving you schidt...




Originally Posted By: Shining
Nobody can take that away, I suppose, Mach. Those are there no matter what, huh....





Actually Shining, I would agree with you, that is how it is SUPPOSED to work ....

All of the things that we discussed yesterday, and what I was working you to see...???

Is that YOU have taken all of that away from yourself, and you have done it quite freely..

To know where you are, who you are, and what you want, you have to find out who the hell you are at your core...

What are your values, your morals, what are you willing to sacrifice, what you are willing to stand for...

And when you lose yourself, and start making those kinds of choices out of emotion, instead of rational thinking...

And you choose to react, instead of just being who you are...

And when you react, you ARE taking those things away from yourself...

You cease being those things, because you are AFRAID to be those things....

Your fear is only as strong as you allow it to become...

So as you start moving forward, you need to be totally aware of the things that you want to be, and love about yourself.


And you need to find out WHY you allow yourself, to strip yourself of those qualities...

When I first started, I did it a little differently, although this will work toward what I did too.

I started by making a list of qualities that I had, that I wanted to show the world everyday, regardless the reaction that I received in return...

And I made it a point to show each of those things everyday...

I didn't expect any of them in return, yet I found myself getting them in return after a period of time....

IF you don't have any clue who you are, and what you want....

How can you expect that in return for yourself ???


So, now that you have your list...

How do you see that in yourself when you interact with others ???

What do you want to show, what do you want in return ???

As Ghandi said....

Sometimes you have to be the change that you want to see in the world....


You got this, you just gotta believe that you got this...