Quote: That is what you are called to do at this point. Help him to find the same peace that you have so that he may heal from what he has done. That is the only way that he is going to know that he is loveable inspite of what he has done.
So this isn't going to happen over night is it?
Yes it was a process for me to get to the point that I'm at now, it took a lot of soul searching and a lot of help from the BB. My H doesn't have a support person, somebody he can really talk to except ME.
Quote: Remember the release and the peace that it brought you when you figured out that no matter what your mistakes were, you were loved. You were loved so much that he died for you and he died for them too.
Yes, I do remember the release when I went back and faced past issues, my old fears and the peace I found from doing this. I'm still learning like you said, it's a never ending process.
Inside something is telling me that it's time for H to know the peace that I have found and what I have learned. That the lessons I have learned can be learned by all, if people can let God back in their hearts.