So what else could you do, that you wouldn't have to see her for more than 5 minutes?

Have you talked to her about holidays and S agreements, finances?

(sorry I haven't been keeping up)

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss