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Re: Welp, He's gone. Wait-- Do I smell BACON??!?!!??! Shining #2489731 09/18/14 12:58 PM
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Ggrass Member G Joined: Apr 2014 Posts: 2,118	Hands shining a bucket of coffee! Go shine. M 46 h54 Both married before T 11y Bd 2/14 I must see where ow leads! Ms 18 hs 26

Re: Welp, He's gone. Wait-- Do I smell BACON??!?!!??! Ggrass #2489757 09/18/14 02:02 PM
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cat04 Member C Joined: May 2009 Posts: 2,375	Coffee...almost better than bacon... Is that even possible? "Acceptance doesn't mean resignation. It means understanding that something is what it is and there's got to be a way through it."--Michael J. Fox

Re: Welp, He's gone. Wait-- Do I smell BACON??!?!!??! cat04 #2489777 09/18/14 02:41 PM
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TSquared2 Member T Joined: Dec 2011 Posts: 2,609 Likes: 1 Rocky Mountains	Quote: Coffee...almost better than bacon... Is that even possible? Now THAT ^^^ has me perplexed, if I was stranded on a desert island, with an iguana, would I want to have coffee, or, bacon? Need more coffee.... In the depths of winter, I finally learned that within me there lay an invincible summer. - Albert Camus Uncertainty is the very condition which impels people to unfold their powers.-Eric Fromm

Re: Welp, He's gone. Wait-- Do I smell BACON??!?!!??! TSquared2 #2489781 09/18/14 02:48 PM
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cat04 Member C Joined: May 2009 Posts: 2,375	My spidey senses say coffee, but my nose says bacon. "Acceptance doesn't mean resignation. It means understanding that something is what it is and there's got to be a way through it."--Michael J. Fox

Re: Welp, He's gone. Wait-- Do I smell BACON??!?!!??! cat04 #2489790 09/18/14 03:03 PM
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OP Shining Member S Joined: Jun 2014 Posts: 910	20! (Balloons, streamers, confetti....) I had to re-write the first 8 after I noticed an important difference between my list and cat's. cat's things all started with "I am" or "I have", etc. My things didn't have the "I am" part, just the "trait". See what I did there??? I will get this. Get this I will.

Re: Welp, He's gone. Wait-- Do I smell BACON??!?!!??! Shining #2489793 09/18/14 03:11 PM
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cat04 Member C Joined: May 2009 Posts: 2,375	So since i'm nosey... Post it? "Acceptance doesn't mean resignation. It means understanding that something is what it is and there's got to be a way through it."--Michael J. Fox

Re: Welp, He's gone. Wait-- Do I smell BACON??!?!!??! Shining #2489796 09/18/14 03:15 PM
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TSquared2 Member T Joined: Dec 2011 Posts: 2,609 Likes: 1 Rocky Mountains	Whoop whoop!!! Good job! Next step, after "taking in" that list and a break... Then put the list aside for now. Think back to a time before any loss, for me it was the summers I spent at my grandparents cabin in the woods on a lake when I was 12, 13, 14, before he died. Some of the best times of my life, fishing, water skiing, wandering the woods, doing projects with him, etc. That has become my "safe place", my mental retreat when I need to chill. Find a time of natural, un-forced happiness, see if you can dig up some pictures of yourself from that time. Really go back in your mind to that time, remember it as vividly as you can...sights, smells, etc. Really get into how it felt, remember how YOU felt... And do another list of 20 good, positive things about YOU AT THAT TIME... before loss, still "innocent"... In the depths of winter, I finally learned that within me there lay an invincible summer. - Albert Camus Uncertainty is the very condition which impels people to unfold their powers.-Eric Fromm

Re: Welp, He's gone. Wait-- Do I smell BACON??!?!!??! cat04 #2489797 09/18/14 03:18 PM
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OP Shining Member S Joined: Jun 2014 Posts: 910	Haha, ok.... Here it is: 1. I am a great mom 2. I have cute small feet 3. I am a good dancer 4. I am smart 5. I am kind 6. I am funny 7. I am generous 8. I have good hair (most days) 9. I am a good teacher 10. I can cook 11. I am creative 12. I can draw 13. I am driven 14. I am a snuggler 15. I am ambidextrous 16. I am curious 17. I am affectionate 18. I have good skin 19. I am strong 20. I am honest And now, I am smiling .

Re: Welp, He's gone. Wait-- Do I smell BACON??!?!!??! Shining #2489821 09/18/14 04:42 PM
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Mach1 Member M Joined: Nov 2008 Posts: 4,711 Likes: 255	Sorry for the confusion Miss Kitty-Cat : ) I will try my hardest, to UN-blond this for you shortly... Originally Posted By: Shining Haha, ok.... Here it is: 1. I am a great mom 2. I have cute small feet 3. I am a good dancer 4. I am smart 5. I am kind 6. I am funny 7. I am generous 8. I have good hair (most days) 9. I am a good teacher 10. I can cook 11. I am creative 12. I can draw 13. I am driven 14. I am a snuggler 15. I am ambidextrous 16. I am curious 17. I am affectionate 18. I have good skin 19. I am strong 20. I am honest And now, I am smiling . Shining.... WHO can take any of that ^^^^ away from you ???

Re: Welp, He's gone. Wait-- Do I smell BACON??!?!!??! Mach1 #2489823 09/18/14 04:47 PM
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OP Shining Member S Joined: Jun 2014 Posts: 910	Nobody can take that away, I suppose, Mach. Those are there no matter what, huh....

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