FWIW- I think you are attaching way too much importance to that call to the lawyer. Someone in this type of situation can be confused and not really know what they want and they will still be checking with a lawyer to consider options. Yes- it appears to be one of several options she is considering - but everything in your situation is unsettled right now - so a mere call to lawyer does not mean she is determined to divorce. My .02.
Agree. I have seen two L's and I'm not the WAS. The only way I would actually take action is if I saw H wasting marital assets, then I would take action to protect myself and my kids. But I felt like knowledge was power and I also needed to rid myself of some fears, which talking to the L's did. So don't mindread, you don't know why she went.
