I agree! For instance, I've seen a lawyer to be on the safe side, but I definitely don't want a D at this time. She may have seen a lawyer out of fear that you would file against her for abandonment. You just never know.
M: 43 H: 39 D: 14 Married 15 Together 16 BD: 6/2014 S: 8/2014 OW revealed 10/2014 Instigated dissolution 12/2014, in progress So over it!