FWIW- I think you are attaching way too much importance to that call to the lawyer. Someone in this type of situation can be confused and not really know what they want and they will still be checking with a lawyer to consider options. Yes- it appears to be one of several options she is considering - but everything in your situation is unsettled right now - so a mere call to lawyer does not mean she is determined to divorce. My .02.
Agreed
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