So back to the push thing, I really do not want to... but there is a point where I am either good enough or I'm not, I am tired of the limbo and being alone...
Why are you tired of being alone, Cali? What can you do to fix that?
It seems to me it's important that we are good on our own before we get into (or back into) any relationship. Don't want to look to someone else to make us whole, you know? This is even more true for you and I since we never knew any life without our W's.
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I am not certain she will look at me as her husband again
She has to love herself before she can love you. People in MLC do not love themselves.
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I can not just be a friend when I still love her this way.
I used to say that too. Turns out I was wrong.
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Patience, I am better off with her now than I was a year ago, hoping she realizes what we had is worth fighting for, she has just started IC and I need to let this play out and allow God the time to work, Patience ... ugh, not my strong point .... just felt good to vent this out.
There you go, just give this some time and see what happens. If you're going to stand you have to take steps to make it work for you. You can do this.
M: A really long time. Crisis: 5 years. She's still worth it.
Life is never made unbearable by circumstances, but only by lack of meaning and purpose. -Viktor Frankl
