I was attracted to Smokey because he was as broken as I was. We both came from very troubled homes. In his case, he was adopted but never told about it until he was 13. I met him around the time he learned of this adoption.
We understood each other's pain in terms of abandonment.
Problem was...Smokey coped with his problems with substances and running away. I became more entrenched in him...looking for safety...he ran further.
"You know, it's times like these when I realize what a superhero I am." Tony Stark/Iron Man
“Focus on what you can do, then do it with all your heart.” Lois Wilson