She came over last night. She brought dinner. I got a kiss hello at the begining with a comment about my breath being minty. I used listerine right before this. I was dressed up. I acted confident, didnt bring up relationship, focused on her, validated her a lot, listened a lot, etc. We talked about me for 5% of the time she was over. She said she was going to go to a costume party this friday that she was invited to by a work girlfriend. I know that OM will be there since he mentioned the party weeks ago via texts that i saw. When she left i got a kiss and a long hug. Then avcouple of minutes later when she was really leaving she came over to give me another kiss. After the kiss she lingered within 3ft of me and there was this tension. We both smiled and i didnt move at all - was trying to play hard to get. As she left to go downstairs to the garage we were looking into each others eyes the whole time. Right before this she said "this was nice" and "i had a good time". And she asked me if i had a good time.

Anyway super confused because she called the lawyer the previous day but didnt say anything about it.

I can keep this up for weeks if i need to.

Thoughts on all of this?


M(32), W(32)
T: 12yrs
M: 5yrs
D-Day: 7/12/14
ILYBNILWY: ~8/2/14
S: 8/20
Discovered OM: 8/20/