Hi Pattie,

Yes I'm sure she was somebody to talk to, but about what I don't know. She also doesn't have any children so could devote a lot of attention to my H.

Maybe it's the fact that she needed somebody, she had just lost her H. My H looks like her deceased H. OW kept pictures of her deceased all over the house. OW was able to travel with H whenever she felt like it, we have a child. My H liked her becuase she was "ambitioius" which I don't quite understand what he means. I like to think I'm just as ambitious, but H refuses to acknowledge anything I do or give me credit for anything I do. I agree she must be ambitioius "I mean to take someone else's H, that's pretty ambitious.

I don't know how much my H shared with her about his life, other than he wasn't happy. I have the feeling that he didn't share the things with her that he did with me though.

Cathy