Ggrass is right, even though he is thinking about ow when he posted that you need to follow that advice.

First, I think you need to UN friend him on fb. This will help your pma and give you the ability to take another step back.

Me: 35 husband:39
Sons 16 and 11 from my first marriage
Twins 5 (boy/girl)
Daughter 3
Affair bomb 2/27/14
He moved in with ow 3/13/14
OW kicked him out 6/15/14
4/2016 he seeks help for sexual addiction