Pattie,

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Do you know just exactly what it is that she can giv him that you need to work on?





A boat... just kidding. I'm thinking of going to the sporting good store and standing by the ad and explaining the sitch to people as the walk by.. or writing "homewrecker" on the picture of the boat. I think a lot of woman will understand this even if they don't know the "details" of why the boat is for sale... As I know a lot marriages that broke up over their S's excessive sporting habits!!

I know to my H it's just a boat, but to me it's OW? Like I want OW in our garage, in our lives, want our S riding around with OW, I know I won't EVER ride in a boat owned by OW.

As far as what I can give H, I'm trying my damnest to figure it out. Honestly, I don't know that my H knows either. Instead of guessing I should just come out and ask him so I do know and don't get blindsided again!

Cathy