Dev, thanks for the support. You're being very patient too. Isn't it amazing how long this whole process can take. I know it took about 5 years for me to get into this mess but hopefully with the increased awareness and newly learned skill sets I can cut the recovery time to 2-1/2 years. I've got over 1 year under my belt so far (she moved out of our bed 13 months ago) and I've only really been doing positive movement work for the last 6 months when I read DR.

This indeed is a marathon. But the time spent alone is productive. There's so much to learn. Every day is a school day.

Keep your head up too, Dev. You'll be fine, regardless of what choices other people make. You deserve to be loved. The pain will go away. You'll be ok.

Last edited by PeterV2; 09/18/14 04:59 AM.
M: 59 W: 53
M: 9 yrs
T: 14 yrs
No kids together but D30(hers), S27, S24, D21(all 3 mine)
W moved out 11/18/2013
D-Day 12/14/2013
W moved back home 12/1/2014