Dang igit, I hate it for you right now. Sounds like you are doing the best you can given the circumstances. And it seems like you have the right game plan...for you. I am still waiting for your post where your W hits bottom and wants to work things out.
Me: 42 W: 32 Married 7 years together 8.5 S1: 7 S2:7 Bomb #1: 09-16-13 Recon #1: 11/13 A discovered 04-03-2014 W filed D 05-19-14 but never served me I filed D 12-02-2014 S 05-31-14 Divorced 5-19-16