What to do when an EA involved?

[Hoju]

I can keep the house but it would only be temporary until my savings dry up. Plus I would need to buy W out of her half as she will doubt be looking for money as she wants to travel. Also as I mentioned it doesn't feel (or look) like a home any more and I can't justify buying more furniture for something I will more then likely have to down size. It also reminds me of her making it very difficult to move forward. Along with a whole other slew of issues like distance to work, distance from friends and family and just general upkeep. Without even an estimated timeline I think it's best for me to continue to move forward.

My 180s are going good, I've managed to stay off the computer, been doing all the chores and small tasks around the house. Also been getting out every weekend. I started seeing a therapist and she's been helping me open up emotionally.

I've been doing good on the GAL front too, reconnected in person with my best friends, we would play online together but distance kept us from hanging out I've been making the effort to drive and visit them. Made new friends with some people from work and we've been going out weekly. Joined a hockey and indoor soccer team for the winter and I've started running and working out.