PS

MMF I do have a question and I'm being totally sincere and not implying anything negative with this question.

But since you have been here a long time (me too!) I wonder this:

IF your ex wife were to come back and want to reconcile,

How would your marriage be different/better now, than before?

How have you changed?

Also, I have 2 family members who divorced and later remarried their former spouses so yes, it can happen.

But in each of those cases, each party in the couple (i.e. all 4 of them) all worked on themselves quite a lot. I noticed significant growth in my cousin and an incredibly more peaceful aunt.

I doubt the changes were made "For" the former spouse so much as changes they each wanted to make in themselves anyhow. (And yes, they were happier the 2nd time around.)

But again, a lot of work and growth happened within each. Hence my questions.


M: 57 H: 60
M: 35 yrs
S30,D28,D19
H off to Alaska 2006
Recon 7/07- 8/08
*2016*
X = "ALASKA 2.0"
GROUND HOG DAY
I File D 10/16
OW
DIV 2/26/2018
X marries OW 5/2016

= CLOSURE 4 ME
Embrace the Change