Ok I made loads of mistakes when she dropped the bomb I was trying to persuade her to change her mind texting her too often asking her to reconsider but then I started doing 180's I stopped drinking a bottle of wine every night before bed I joined a gym and I'm now in the best shape of my life and she knows it, I replaced every bit of clothing I had with new I go out with friends every weekend where before I stayed in with the family, I get my hair cut every month I am always clean shaven I make sure I look the best I can at all times and I think it just might be working but I don't want to get my hopes up just yet
