So I took a small step with my wife this afternoon and got a reasonable response. Today I smoked a pork butt all day for pulled pork. It was a really nice size piece of pork and took 10 hours to smoke. There is so much pork I sent the wife a text message asking if she would like some sent down for her to have for dinner. I did not expect a response as it was not about the girls. I was pleasantly surprised to get a fairly quick response back that she would like that. I will chalk this up to a check in the plus column. I decided to do this based on advice I got from my DB coach in spring and from what others have gotten as well in trying to establish some level of friendship. It will take a lot of baby steps and who knows if she will respond favorably, but this was a first.
Twisting on Life's Rope Me53 W53 M20 D21 D19 D16 BD 2-2013 D final 1-2015 _________________________ "Dream about tomorrow, Live for today, Learn from yesterday"