My best friend had some good advice after I said something that was telling. After each sucker punch (search for appt, move out, angry rant, file for D, service of D papers), after a few days I would get to a point where I could safely coast. Meanwhile my WAW was/is working on the next speed bump. So instead of coasting (or hiding in the fox hole), he said I need to treat this thing as a battle and be in constant motion to help turn it around. Whether prayer, or anticipating the next move. I thought that was good advice.
Me:40 W:39 M:Dec 95 Split: Jul 14 W Filed: 9/16/14 Several Children (including adopted)
