Ok ... so W has been TM me .. about S, then the fact we have a refund on taxes she wants to split, and then repay me the balance she owes (Good timing as I am looking a t a new place.
Just TM me now and I need help ... she TM "What do you want for your Birthday?" ..... my answer is .. My Wife/Family and Best Friend back .. but I can not obviously send that. This is tough, last year she was with OM, though I didn't know it ... its tough to not think of that now, even harder as that card there was no ILY as in years past. BUT ... when she asked I have always told her nothing, part of me would like to say .. Football game tickets for our family at your college ... then part of me really wants nothing from her but this would be taken negatively
