Thanks Mighty, I appreciate the information. How is NY law on child visitation/child support enforcement? I've learned through Wishing how tough Wisconsin is...
I'm leaning towards filing for temp. child support (I was told by my atty that I can't file for temp alimony unless I file for divorce)...then, I can expect $400 per month, I can move, hand this back over to Smokey if he chooses to file...ask around for a good atty in NY. I will have plenty of resources in terms of finding a good attorney...get d12 into counseling, yadda, yadda...
I know I'm going to get screwed financially, but, at this point, maybe it's worth the piece of mind in being further away and able to start fresh.
I'm angry with my attorney though. I didn't expect this today. I feel it was a bit unfair. He knows our situation and that I'm starting a new job. I get the impression he just wants rid of this one.
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