"The third time's lucky. "

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Just checking in, a bit of journaling.
The ex called me Saturday out of the blue (touch and go maybe?)
He is on testosterone injections and has to go donate blood every month because his red blood cell count is too high. I took him to his first appointment back in January I think it was before he moved out. Anyway long story short he said that his last 2 blood donations came back as a possible positive for Hepatitis B. They screen all donations at the blood bank and then mail a letter out. He thought I should go get tested because he has not been with anyone else but me since 1996. There was no monstering and it was a civil conversation (considering the last time I heard from him he was texting me and emailing me horrible things and calling me names and blaming me for everything wrong in his life). Well I have not been with the man sexually since February and he screened negative at least 5 times since he moved out, so chances of me having it are sort of low I would think. That was 7 months ago. From what i've read on it, if you have Hep B you either get really sick or you don't have symptoms (neither of us have any of the symptoms) and it can clear out of your system completely in 6 months in most cases. Well I've not been with him in 7 so i'm not too concerned about it. He was going to the doctor to get a real test because the donation place was just one of those screening tests and doesn't necessarily mean anything, could be a false positive. I'm not sure if he called just to talk about it or if he genuinely thought I could have it or what. Not reading too much into it, just said ok i'll get tested and left it at that. I really thought I had heard from him for the last time. I can only assume he will holler at me again with his results (maybe) I don't know and I really don't care. A friend of mine told me they saw him in a local facebook group posting pics of his meet up with a bunch of 20-30 year olds at a restaurant. He's 56. I of course thought about it for a moment and just thought it was script to be doing that - but that's his life, none of my business and I don't really care to know what he's doing, that's why I blocked him on facebook a few months ago and I don't go on there much anyway. Honestly I don't know why I answered the phone when he called in the first place, usually I do not. I'm ready to let the past stay in the past and just know that I learned from it and move on. I'm toying with the idea of changing my last name too, I just want zero connection with the man.