Not sure if it matters about moving, but I live in ny & just went through this. You just have to say m has been broken for 6 months. Being separated for 6 months has that covered. Then u can file. He 20 days to respond from then. If he signs saying he agrees, d is final lickety split. If he does not respond, it is sent to judge, takes another 20 days- then d will be granted. It does not take much time/effort. I was never even told when it was going to the court/judge. Way too easy if I ask me. NY now mirrors Cali law for d.