If my attorneys calculations are correct on my wife who makes 50K per year you would see between $130 to $150 per week in child support from smokey.
On the spousal support it depends on what kind of state you are in. Are you in a community property state vs New York? You may want to look into compare and contrast the divorce laws in each state and if they favor one gender over another before you decide on where to file. New york is probably more liberal than Ohio, though upstate is more conservative. You may also have to wait a period of time before you can file in New York.
Is the house in both your names? If so, I would tell spouse you are moving and cannot afford the house anymore and either he pick it up or you both have to decide to jointly give it back to the bank.
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