Update

W is now backing away from the buyout of the house. So it looks like I am going to have to sell, I had a Realtor come over and dropped off all the paperwork to get the house listed. W is starting to become more hostile in her conversations, they are mainly emails right now and she has never been good at writing so who knows.

I am thinking once the house sells (or the buyout happens), I am going to have the D paperwork all filled out and ready to go. We need to get everything notarized no matter what happens so I am thinking to just get everything done at that time.

She was supposed to come over last night to get more of her stuff and talk, she told me she had dinner plans and wouldn't stay long. Then she texted and told me she wasn't coming over because she didn't have enough time before dinner. I really didn't like that she is telling me she has dinner, but I simply responded "no worries, have a nice time." It hurts having to validate that knowing she is probably with OM but what can I do?

I have also wanted to suggest she get back into painting, she has made a few over the years and they are very beautiful. I know I probably shouldn't say that to her, but she is really quite good at it. Thoughts?


Me 34
W 30
T 13
M 8
BD 7/27/14
EA Confirmed 8/6/14
S 8/2/14
D Imminent

I quote the immortal words of Socrates who said "...I drank what?"