First off, stop snooping. I did it initially (actually glad I did because it confirmed OM) and since then I haven't looked AT ALL. I came home from a trip on Sunday and she left her phone at the house, didn't even pick it up, and to be honest didn't really want to. Everything you read when you snoop will work against you (even good news).

When she comes over enjoy her company and be the man only a fool would leave. I would recommend you do something different when she is over. Did you ever talk walks together? If not, do that! Change it up a little.

Have you called a lawyer? I would at least consult one just to find out your rights in your state. The fact she called one means nothing and she is only preparing herself if she has to walk down that path. Don't tell her you know.

Me 34
W 30
T 13
M 8
BD 7/27/14
EA Confirmed 8/6/14
S 8/2/14
D Imminent

I quote the immortal words of Socrates who said "...I drank what?"