My suggestion is for you to sit down and pray and ask the Lord what direction you are to take.
He is the only one who truly knows your husband and the best way for you to handle things. There are many suggestions that people can give and tell you, but the only one that is going to give you the right one is the Lord.
You have prayed for every other situation and he has helped you, that is where I suggest that you go. Did you order the book When Prodigals Return? If not, please order it. This is going to be a whole brand new journey for you and there are going to be many things that you are going to deal with that all of us will only be able to make suggestions at because we do not know your husband.
I think that things are so far going great for you, but I think you feel a little unbalanced now because again the rug has been pulled out from under you. In a good way this time, but still you are very uncertain.
I can only imagine how this must feel for you. It has to be exciting and scary at the same time. I'm sure that he feels the same way as well. He made a big step by cutting her completely off which means, he got rid of his safety net. So that is one big step no matter how you look at it.
