Not much 2 add wink but (!!) ....

What ever different u think u could have done wouldn't have mattered Matt. You doing differnt would only affect the variables - the 'when' it/mlc was going to happen.

Here's the constant - it would happen anyway!!! Once there is dysfunction, it's only a matter of time b 4 there is 'mental unravelling'
Pls don't think that way - u have a lot ahead of u. Save your 'resources'/ energy. You will need it!

Take care, pb smile

pbetra
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M: 15 yrs (in 2014)
BD: 6/03/2014
Infidelity ('known' from July 2014)
Denied PA Feb 2015
2 leave Mar 2015 (left early Summer). Some contact.
Back briefly 2017 (after family death)
Separated 2017