You can do this. Take care of yourself and youf S but give your H all the support and TLC to tackle his issues. He needs you - coming back is his way of asking for your help.
As someone else said, fill his love tank. Find a solutions-based C and encourage your H to go. Maybe he will go alone first and then you will join him later. Whatever it takes huh?!?!?
You go girl!
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