So I have made a list of what the h would say are the most irritating things about me, than I looked up the opposite online and came up with things like :
1) mean/nice
2) disrespectful / considerate
3) nagging/reassuring ,comforting
4) needy/ undemanding
5) criticize / praise
6) fake/ honest, genuine
7) attack/ retreated,support, console
8) boring/ alluring ,fabulous, energizing
9) hateful/loving, affectionate , kind
10) reject/defend, cherish ,accept

I wanted to look at it on paper, see if some keywords popped out at me, so I could use them as my 180's

M 2005 ~together 1997
Bd 2006 & 04/02/2014
1 dd 12
H~ 44 Me 48