I was thinking of you last night, too, as our S is H's world. I think it hit H that H didn't want to miss ONE day of our S's life and that he wanted to be with us.
It was kind of bittersweet last night. H still doesn't think I care for him. I said yes, I do I love you. I told him last night that I loved him and that I loved him more than I even thought I did. He then said that I didn't care about him and I said "you won't let me care about you."
I'm not sure why H went along with my rule with S NOT going to OW's or being a part of THAT world. Since H didn't know what he was doing, it didn't make sense for S to get involved. I mean I just didn't want that for our S, to be a part of that madness. So it worked for me.
Read LivenLearns thread, as she is having this same situation put on her and all the posts saying "not" to let this happen.
