There definitely a game being played, and no I didn't declare undying love, did say marriages have ebb and flow and that the last year of marriage was pretty horrendous, but the s had actually made me look at myself and for that I was thankful, I certainly wasn't going to tell him I wanted to get back together after they have just broken up, I think there is lot more to it on her part, I think the realization of just how young the kids are and how much work they are probably hit her and the fact the twins really are pocket rockets and require a lot of attention. This lady bis seriously high maintenance, and her daughter is at an age where she needs her mum too, so I don't know, I think honestly the whole thing is bizarre.