Wife having emotional affair part 2

[3kids]

25years yes if I could afford it I would. I am financially taped. And she does no this. I have been saving up money even to file bankruptcy. I cover every thing for the kids in costs and pay well over my limit for child support. I was the one who even managed to get just major medical for the family when we didn't have anything.

But maybe I should put the offer out there that maybe we could figure it out together if need be. Yes you are correct in that I didn't pick up on that. Maybe it was that where do I stop being a husband and let her try and figure out her own life for once. This is all hard for me to understand. On where to stop and where to pick up.