Here is an update for everyone

I am in my new place in Tx, she has almost everything from the house, I am sleeping on an air mattress until I can get new furniture. This is the great restart in my life.. it's funny how she leaves, abandons me and the kids. Yet I am the one who has to (or gets to) restart.

The first day I am in my place the WAW was away for work, she text's me asking if I could send her wedding ring to the jeweler so she can get it remade into something new.

This hit me like a 2x4 to the head. Every time I detach, something like this happens. It's almost as if she is trying to screw with me on purpose. Thankfully pretty soon I get to grab my stuff out of her garage and put some more distance between us.

I wish this process was easier, its as if we are going through the separation process 4-5 months in.


Me: 35
Her: 33
D : 16
S : 9
Together: 14 years
Married: 12
She left 4/14/2014
Separated: 5/25/2014
OM Confirmed 7/2014
She filed 8/7/2014
I Filed 10/21/2014
Divorce final 2/12/2015