How you handle it will be important Barry, if you do it in a controlling way, she will resent you and do less and take longer.
I hate to be pushed or feel like I have to, on someone else's whim. Not sure I've explained it well, but try to raise in a light hearted way or a more matter of fact. Lots of blame will no help.
Just my take.
M 46 h54 Both married before T 11y Bd 2/14 I must see where ow leads! Ms 18 hs 26
