Happy Anniversary dawgy. I agree a simple understated card is appropriate. You could even add, with all my love forever, if you dare. But don't harp on it. Actually best just to leave it for her - don't even present it personally. If she takes a lead and wants to go to dinner together do it but stay cool and detached. Let her set the pace and tone. As long as she doesn't start spewing. If she does and you need to take an occasional time out do so.
What are her LLs?


M: 59 W: 53
M: 9 yrs
T: 14 yrs
No kids together but D30(hers), S27, S24, D21(all 3 mine)
W moved out 11/18/2013
D-Day 12/14/2013
W moved back home 12/1/2014