Hey Dev. Looks like we're both on a bit of a plateau. Just waiting for the status quo to change, hopefully for the better, but seemingly unable to influence the course. I think you handled the food taking incident with tact. No 2x4 required. I often think that it would be good to say to her, hey, there's a way out of your mess and it's call reconciliation with your husband. But I think that would be perceived as being demanding, pursuing, controlling, manipulative, selfish, etc., etc... So just staying the course with minimal contact may be the only way. Maybe just a card saying the door's open. But she probably already knows that. She just doesn't want to walk through that door just yet. I don't know. I feel stumped in my sitch. Keep up the PMA.
M: 59 W: 53 M: 9 yrs T: 14 yrs No kids together but D30(hers), S27, S24, D21(all 3 mine) W moved out 11/18/2013 D-Day 12/14/2013 W moved back home 12/1/2014
