I checked the online court records tonight and I see that my wife has filed for divorce. Thank God I've been coming to this site to help mentally prepare for what's ahead. I did not break down emotionally, which is good. Wow, I'm happy about that as I write this. I have put off seeing a lawyer, but now I'm forced to. This is so sad. 18 years of marriage, and several children threatened.

I called my best friend. He's such an encouragement to keep my head up and keep believing. I sent my wife a text simply stating that I'm so so sorry that we have gotten to the point and I know the road must have been very difficult for her. I did not beg or plead, just offered a sincere apology. No response.

So at church, we are playing songs about faith, praise, and surrender. How appropriate they are. That's where my hope is now.

Me:40
W:39
M:Dec 95
Split: Jul 14
W Filed: 9/16/14
Several Children
(including adopted)