Well my life has just taken a very bizarre turn, took the boys to swimming today, and the ow ' s bff was there, and I was quite happy just paying attention to the boys, buff started talking to me about h and ow, I told her I wasn't interested in discussing them at all, then she said if I thought there was any chance at all that h and I would reconcile that I should try, that ow doesn't want to be the one to break up a family (really?? didn't think about that over 6 months ago!!) bff said ow is 'distraught ' that when my s7 met her apparently s7 said mummy and daddy still over each other and he want us all to live together. I reiterated that I had nothing to say, that it's their decision, and perhaps they should have thought about the kids earlier. ow wants to talk to me, I don't know what to do with that, I certainly won't be contacting her, but what do I do if she contacts me? bff also said there is no way ow would ever move in with h, she's too high maintenance and not into kids (kind of makes me feel sorry for her daughter)
my other dilemma is do I tell h about all of this or do I just stfu, unless he brings anything up, I highly doubt he knows ow wants to talk to me.
my god, this is a mess, just when I'm getting a handle on things.
